Author: Ike Love
Low self esteem is a very destructive force. It destroys relationships. It destroys a person’s motivation. It destroys a person’s desires. It destroys a person’s finances, and it also destroys a person’s ability of manifesting abundance in his life, thus keeping him mired in mediocrity or worse, poverty.
Many people would learn about the Universal principles required to manifest abundance, wind up applying them, only to get frustrated down the line when nothing materializes in their lives. They would then go and say that these laws don’t work and give them names like “New Age mumbo-jumbo,” or “woo-woo b.s.”.
The fact of the matter is that many of these people don’t believe that they’re worth receiving the desires of their heart, so they actually wind up driving that which they desire away from them.
They have a low self esteem due to programming from their past from parents, or their peers and subconsciously don’t see themselves ever acquiring these things. Parents and peers from the past may have told them they were nothing or would never amount to anything. Peers may have teased them about one thing or another. This all resulted in the person adopting negative beliefs about himself that amounted to a low self worth. This low self worth caused him to repel the things that he says he desires.
People may say they want a nice house, a prosperous business, a faithful spouse, etc, but in actuality they don’t think they deserve any of these things. Rather, subconsciously, they have an image of what they think that they really deserve, which of course is far inferior to what they say they want and what they TRULY deserve.
Self esteem also causes a person to aim lower than what are the TRUE desires of his heart. Thus, when he’s trying to manifest his reality, he’s not nearly as motivated to bring into fruition the thing he settled for compared to that which he truly desired but shirked away from manifesting because he didn’t think he was worth it.
It’s like a person who wants, from the bottom of his heart, to manifest a million dollar business, but since he really doesn’t think he’s deserving of having such a business and is too stupid to attain that, settles for manifesting a job promotion at a job that he’s not fulfilled at. Yet, because the thing he settled for doesn’t truly speak to his heart, he’s not as motivated to manifest it though he tries to convince himself otherwise and even his “lesser dream” fails to come into fruition.
When you ignore your heart’s desires due to low self esteem you wind up aiming low. When you aim low you lessen your desires. When you’re desires are lessened you tend to focus a lot less on that which you say you want. When you have a lack of focus you fail to manifest anything in your life.
There were many times in my own life where I was trying to manifest something that I really wasn’t enthused about but settled for because the REAL thing I really wanted I didn’t think I was worth. Due to my lack of desire, I came up empty handed.
For you to really become effective at manifesting abundance in all areas of your life, you MUST stop telling yourself you’re not worth attaining that which you desire and do away with all negative self-talk altogether. You must get rid of the old tapes playing in your head from your parents, your peers, and others in your past that destroyed your self worth.
If you have low self esteem, you must begin right where you sit right now and begin to change the self image you have of yourself to someone who is worthy of success and abundance.
You’re the only one who can appoint yourself to success, no one else will. The more worthy you think you are of success, the more it will come to you.
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